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Sex before emotional attachment, sex before any form of relationship, sex before everything.• The guy will call or text when he wants to hookup but that is about it.
I might start talking to a guy only to see him leave with a woman who has made it perfectly clear that a hook-up is about to happen.• You are supposed to be on call to wait for the opportunity to see him • Don't reveal too much about yourself, but listen to him complain • Don't expect commitment, or exclusivity • Don't expect any emotional bonding • Don't expect much effort on his part to impress you • Don't expect him to make you feel important in his life Not exactly what I call fun, but again everyone is different and for some people this situation is ideal.What I find frustrating is that if you really want to get to know a guy first before having sex with him, it seems like there is no end to the women who will jump into bed with them.I had one man who kept calling me for months, another who rudely told me about his other women -- and yes there is a polite way to handle this -- and yet another who had a mild breakdown in my apartment about how he couldn't handle the "gray area".So I realized, I am not this person, I need to be true to myself so I went back to my committed relationship roots.
As a person who is by nature very direct and to the point, dating is a mystery trapped in a puzzle, tucked in a fireproof safe thrown down a mineshaft. But the most distressing behavior is the casual sex hook-up mating habits that dominate New York City, a city that I adore and call my home. I make no illusions to being anything but this, and I do not judge others with different lifestyles.